Look for someone who also has great hair and knows how to sport excellent sideburns![9] X Research source

Look for a guy who annoys and frustrates you every now and again. Look for a guy with whom you’d fight with every so often. Look for a guy who doesn’t meet every expectation or qualification on your list. Look for a guy who challenges you and needs you to explain your opinion when it differs from his (which should be fairly often).

Look for a man who always holds the door open for someone else, not just other women. Look for a man who stands up when a woman is also standing up (e. g. arrives or leaves a dinner table). Look for a man who doesn’t start eating before everyone else at the table has been served and has taken a bite. Look for a man who doesn’t openly share every opinion he has unless specifically asked. Look for a man who knows which fork to use in a complicated table setting.

Look for a guy who is proud of his heritage and background, but doesn’t use that heritage or background to define who he has to be. Look for a guy who is proud of his accomplishments and will admit that.

Look for a guy who always greets and thanks his doorman, secretary, and chauffeur. Look for a man who can help you out without needing to take you over. Look for a man who supports you but doesn’t expect you to do what he wants to says all the time. Look for a man who knows you are independent and that you love your independence.

Look for a guy who is talked about by others in the nicest possible way. A guy who everyone has something good to say about, even if the people talking about him might actually be a little jealous. Look for a guy who is ‘in demand. ’ Someone who is always invited to parties and dinner, sent Christmas cards every year, remembered on his birthday, etc. However, at the same time, he should be a guy who isn’t necessarily thrilled with this attention. He should be a guy who would prefer not to really be noticed if possible.

Look for a guy who is shy and awkward at a party or in a public place, but who is open, friendly and chatty when he’s at home or with only his close friends. Look for a guy who would prefer to stay home and be comfortable than go out on the town and participate in the nightlife.

Look for a guy who is only a little stubborn, but not set in his ways. Look for a guy who knows how to apologize and make amends. [29] X Research source