Search for someone who has avoided or healed and/or completed counseling successfully from any past sexual trauma, such as sexual abuse or pornography addiction. Unresolved sexual difficulties can create significant problems in love and marriage. Search for someone who strives towards sexual purity by the media consumption they choose for viewing and listening, not seeking tantalizing or anger based entertainment. Search for someone who has received healing and/or completed counseling successfully for any past substance abuse and currently has not been addicted to any substances for several years. Similar to past sexual trauma, unhealed substance abuse problems can create significant problems in marriage. Search for someone who has received healing and/or completed counseling successfully for any past relational trauma, either from partners or parents. Unhealed relational wounds is bound to show in their dynamic with you and create much strain.
