Bond over something you have in common, like a favorite sports team or an interest in reality TV. Take genuine interest in his hobbies, work, and other friends. You’ll have an especially easy time befriending him if you’re coworkers or classmates. For most Cap men, a love affair starts as a friendship first. These are the relationships that last the longest for them because the foundation is so strong.
“What’s your favorite non-work thing to do?” “If you could only live in one place for the rest of your life, where would you live?” “What are you most proud about in your career so far?”
Enjoy yourself while you’re chatting about serious topics—he’ll notice if you’re into the conversation (and fall for you if you are). Capricorn men are very proper at first. Avoid bringing up controversial topics or making NSFW comments until you get to know him better. A stimulating conversation is a big turn on for a Cap man. When you can charm him intellectually first, he’ll be more open to physical flirtation later.
Capricorn guys love anything high-status. He’ll be fascinated to know about any prestigious schools, jobs, or awards on your resume.
A Cap man works hard to live an enjoyable and comfortable life. Grab his interest and tell him about the travels and rewards you want to get from your hard work and focus. The Goat is a transactional sign, and he sees everything as a business move. Prove you’re a good investment with a bright career and he’ll be all over you.
Capricorn men eventually want to settle down and raise a family with the money earned from their flourishing career. He’ll be intrigued by you if he senses you want these things too. Save stories about your wacky relatives, rebellious phases, or wild nights out for when you’ve gotten to know each other better.
Chances are he’s not into crude or bawdy humor. Stick to witty comebacks or quips about current events to tickle his intellectual sense of humor. Don’t be afraid to show your goofy side between talks about your professional goals—your Cap guy will be drawn to your ability to let loose and work hard.
Complicated reports or projects at work or school. Physical tasks like heavy lifting or rearranging furniture. Advice about a social or professional dilemma, especially if it involves networking.
If you want to have a full text conversation, message him first. He’s unsure of himself when he’s flirting and will probably hesitate to reach out. Dirty talk and sexting aren’t most Capricorn guys’ jam. Send him a radiant selfie or a pic of you wearing a cute outfit instead. His interest will be piqued when you leave a little something to the imagination. Respond to him promptly and reliably when he texts you. Capricorns love protocol and consistency, and he’ll reach out to you more when he knows what to expect.
Simple patterns and dark, neutral colors satisfy his preference for simplicity. Think classic colors like navy blue, black, brown, olive green, or charcoal gray. Simple accessories, like classic gold or silver jewelry, are appealing to a Capricorn man. Statement pieces or anything “loud” might be too eccentric. Play up your dark facial features—thick eyelashes, full brows, and a smokey eye are particularly alluring to him.
Simple touches to his hand or leg while you’re talking are direct enough to get his attention without being intrusive. If he’s making jokes and puts in effort to spend time with you, it’s a sign he’s into you. Look out for these signs before you crank up the heat on your flirting. A Cap guy loves a long game. Let the anticipation build up during your wholesome flirtation to make him eager to take things to the next level.
“Hey, I really enjoy spending time with you and would love to get to know you better. ” “I like you as more than a friend. Let’s grab a coffee sometime. ” “I’m just gonna come right out and say it—I really like you. ”
Don’t flirt with or pursue him too hard too soon. He might mistrust your familiarity and think you’re trying to manipulate him or get something out of him. Capricorn is not generally a “mushy” sign and they’re practical about the people they love. Getting too emotional too soon will make him think you’re not a compatible, practical match.
As he warms up to you, he’ll want to spend more time with you. Any effort on his part to make plans or see you is a huge sign that your flirtatious efforts are paying off.
Capricorn men are cautious and slow to trust. They’ll feel very betrayed if they find out you’ve withheld something from them or weren’t honest with them. They hate playing mind games and always prefer straightforward, direct communication.
