Most women don’t enjoy being laughed at, and your attempts at getting her attention will turn into a one-way street to ignorance. The woman that you want to attract probably just wants you to tell her straight-out that you like her. She may not have been expecting you to say that (since a lot of guys think that saying something cruel is irresistibly cute), so she might take a step back, look at you in a weird way, or say something like, “What?” But don’t worry– you can be sure she was happy you told her the way that you did. Telling her to her face that you like her or want to get to know her better will immediately set you apart from most other men, and she will be more open to trusting you.
Every woman wants to be noticed by a brave, humorous, and outgoing man at least once in their lifetime. In fact, when you be yourself and are completely honest with her, she will naturally want to know more about you. Make it seem like it was her idea to get to know you in the first place, and you will have to do little to nothing in forming a relationship with her.
Some women, usually Scorpios (born from October 23 to November 21), are the ones who are extremely picky about who they get to know. They are definitely not for beginners (unless you have beginner’s luck, of course), so it may be a good idea to ask when her birthday is. You could even just ask what sign she is, and even if she is a Scorpio, women love to talk about themselves and this might be a good way to make her think it was all her idea.
No woman wants you to stand in front of her while she is trying to think of good things about you, and push her to tell you she likes you too. You will most likely be turned down if you don’t leave her alone. This includes getting your friends to bother her about it. If she decides to like you back (hopefully for a good reason), she will come back to you on her own and let you know. In the meantime, just sit back, relax, and do what you would normally do that day.
Let her move toward you when she gets comfortable, but don’t expect her to make a move if you just met her. Some women are very outgoing and might make a move anyway, but otherwise, she’s probably expecting you to be the one to initiate a date. You might want to read about how to understand women, or how to understand woman body language. And if you don’t know how to ask her out, first make sure she is comfortable around you, and then just say, “Will you go out with me?”
Lead the conversation more, try asking more questions based on her interest.
