Once they have added you back or accepted your request, say hi! Commenting is important because they probably get friend or follow requests from many people, and you’ll be able to distinguish yourself from them this way. Bring attention to yourself in a low-key way by commenting on a (recent) picture something like, “I like this” or “This looks cool!” A compliment is usually good, but don’t think too hard. If it’s Snap Chat, send them a picture & say “hi” or ask them what’s up! People appreciate other people who are interested in their lives, so make sure you genuinely care about this person’s life. {“smallUrl”:“https://www. wikihow. com/images/thumb/e/e9/Become-Famous-on-the-Internet-Step-1Bullet2. jpg/v4-460px-Become-Famous-on-the-Internet-Step-1Bullet2. jpg”,“bigUrl”:"/images/thumb/e/e9/Become-Famous-on-the-Internet-Step-1Bullet2. jpg/aid7640278-v4-728px-Become-Famous-on-the-Internet-Step-1Bullet2. jpg",“smallWidth”:460,“smallHeight”:345,“bigWidth”:728,“bigHeight”:546,“licensing”:"<div class="mw-parser-output">

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For example, if you are in a certain class together, ask them what the homework is. If it’s Monday, ask them how their weekend was. Make sure you say it loud enough for them to hear and start by saying their name. This person might not recognize your voice or might think you’re talking to someone else, so say their name before you start your conversation. Start by asking one question, then try asking two next time, then three, etc. Let the conversation flow naturally, and if it stops, be the one to end it. You could say, “Okay, thanks! I’ll see you around” or “It was nice talking to you” or whatever you see fit for your situation. If you’re still really scared to talk to them at this point, don’t freak out! Take your time and slowly, at your own pace, become more comfortable talking to them. Smiling helps, too.

Also, if they have an interest, try to remember and show your support for it. For example, if they have a sport they like or a team they follow, check the team’s game schedule and ask the person what they thought of their team’s last game. Knowing that someone else pays attention to their likes and dislikes really strengthens the bond between people naturally. If there is an artist they like, you can ask them what their favorite songs are! This person will appreciate how much you care about them as a person.

Avoid “using” people to talk to this person or only interact with people to impress the person you like! Remember, you are friends with the person you like on your own terms. Don’t befriend their squad just so you can get to them, rather befriend them because you actually want to be friends with them. People are individuals and all deserve legitimate friends, remember. Cut out the middleman!

Be careful to avoid ditching your old friends or making the person you like ditch theirs. Let friends know ahead of time when you are busy and make sure you still spend time with your pals whenever you can. If they are romantically involved with someone else, don’t hang out one-on-one at all outside a professional setting (i. e. work, school, etc. ), especially if you are the one initiating it. This might come across very wrong and actually end up being detrimental to your friendship. Remember, if someone is in a relationship, respect that. As soon as they are back on the market, you have full dibs and can hang out together without causing any trouble.

You don’t have to do this face to face. Give them a secret admirer-styled letter with a hint at the end that will undoubtedly point to you. You could even be forward and sign it! If you’re not going to do it face to face (or during Skype, Face Time, or any other video chat), don’t text them your confession or tell them via social media. This may come across either as a joke to them or make you seem impersonal. It doesn’t have to be a long, eloquent letter, either. Use your own words and say what you think they should know! If you choose to tell them in real life, keep it casual! You don’t need to disclose your late night internet stalking or how you think of them every night before you sleep so you can dream about them. You should, however, tell them that you think they’re cool and ask if they would want to try a romantic relationship. Use your own words, of course, so that they know you’re being genuine. Each friendship/relationship is different and there is no one way to tell someone you like them, but if you want to stay friends, either way, casual is the way to go. Although, if you are the type of person who is extravagant or know that this person will appreciate a big and obvious gesture, feel free not to be casual at all! Get creative and do you. No matter if you’re simple or elaborate in your confession, be true to who you are and be creative! If this person is a good person, they will appreciate the time and effort you put into letting them know, whether they feel the same way or not.

Yes, the feelings are mutual. You overcame your shyness and told the object of your desire how you felt. You should be proud of you for getting through that! Now is your chance to prove to them that you are the perfect partner for them, which will be easy since you were friends first. No, they would rather stay friends or don’t feel the same way, have no fear. You can try again later or simply move on. Someone else will come along, believe it or not, and you will find love again! Hey, at least you can cross that off your bucket list. You should still be very proud of yourself for breaking out of your shell. Make sure you don’t let this stop you from trying again. If they ask you out before you do or tell you they like you first, don’t hold back! Let them know that you have liked them for a while, too! This doesn’t mean everything will be perfect and easy from now on, but the hardest part is over. Enjoy your relationship and remember to stay friends with them even in your newfound love.