Don’t block her on social media because you want her to still be able to check up on you. Hopefully, she’ll keep following your accounts so she can see how amazing your life is now. She may reach out to you during this time. Resist responding until your no-contact period is over. You want her to think you’re too busy for her now.
If they follow you on social media, you’ve already won half the battle. They’ll see all your posts and pics and might bring it up to your ex.
Take pictures of you hanging out with your friends or your pet. Post a photo of you practicing a hobby, such as playing guitar or working on your soccer skills. Take a picture of an activity you’re doing, like playing a game, strolling around a museum, or bicycling.
While you’re still doing no-contact, smile, nod, and keep walking. You might say “Hi” back if she talks to you. You don’t want to totally ignore her, but you also don’t want her to feel like you’re eager to talk.
“Hi, how’s it going?” “Hey there. I’ve really been missing you. ” “I drove by our spot today, and it made me think of you. ” “Today I ate some skittles and remembered they’re your favorite. How are you?” “Hey, do you know what time Toby’s party starts?” “I was wondering if you have the notes from class today. ”
“It’s been so good seeing you. Right now I have to meet a friend, but maybe we’ll run into each other again. ” “I really like talking to you, but I have to go. We’ll chat again soon. ” “I’ll have my phone off for a while because I’m out with friends. I’ll text you back later tonight. ”
Choose an exercise you find fun, like dancing, playing sports, walking with a friend, roller skating, or bicycling.
You might start playing the guitar again, gaming with friends, or performing in community theater. You could also post photos of your art, join a recreational sports team, or attend a festival.
Cut or dye your hair. Try a new sport. Take up an instrument. Host a party. Publish an e-book. Enter an art show. Get a new pet. Switch up your wardrobe. Sing karaoke.
Maybe she thought you were too much of a homebody before. You could focus on going out more and seeing friends. Perhaps she hated that you never dressed up for dates. Post photos of you wearing dressier attire while out to dinner with friends or family.
Looks: Change your hairstyle or wardrobe to create the look you want. Social: Make new friends, join a club, or hang out with friends more often. Personality: Take up a hobby, learn a new skill, or take a class. Money: Get a job, change jobs, or enroll in a college or university.
“Hey! Just wanted to say hi! 😉 I’ve been busy all weekend at a soccer tournament and just now saw your snaps. ” “How have you been? Today I finally tried that restaurant you always talk about. Yum! 😋🍽” “You seem to be having fun! Yesterday I went to Karaoke🎤 and thought of you. We should finally do that duet you always wanted. ” “Thinking about you a lot lately. I really took what you said to heart, and I’ve changed a lot since we broke up. Just wanted you to know that 💛. ”
“Since our breakup, I think about you all of the time. I really miss what we had, and I want you back. I’ve really been working on myself lately, and I can be a better partner for you. Would you be willing to give me a second chance?” “After we broke up, I just felt empty. You’re the girl for me. I know things weren’t perfect, but I think they can be so much better if you’d just give me a second chance. ” “I really miss what we had. I was hoping you’d go out with me on a date this weekend to see if we can try again. ”
