Mark special dates on your calendar like when you first saw each other and when you first kissed. You can plan special dates around these anniversaries to give her the attention she deserves. Your girl is unlike any other girl, so take her somewhere that means something to her. Maybe there’s a restaurant she used to always go to as a kid or a movie she always watches to make her smile. Arrange the date around her.
Send her a picture of something from an inside joke to make her laugh. Stay updated about what’s going on in her life, and be there for her if she needs you. Text her a 😊 to brighten any message. Send her a funny meme or gif to express your feelings and make her laugh.
“Your smile is contagious. ” “You’re beautiful. ” “I love the way you light up a room just by being there. ”
Make a date of the week where you’ll both hang out together. Ask her to pick the movie or restaurant. Giving her a chance to make choices on the dates will help her feel included, wanted, and heard.
This includes all types of distractions: video games, television, and computers. Give your girl all your focus no matter what you’re doing.
If your girl likes to read, take her to her favorite bookstore and treat her to a new book. If your girl likes sports, bring her to a sporting event for her favorite team. You can even wear her favorite player’s jersey! If your girl likes to craft, ask her to teach you. This is sure to make you both giggle and, who knows, maybe you’ll find a new favorite hobby!
Listen to your girl and gift her something she needs or wants. You can buy any girl anything, but your girl is special. Find something that’s personal to her.
Be present to hear what she’s not saying. What is she feeling? Smile and nod at the appropriate times to let her know you’re listening. Let go of everything else and only focus on her. Notice when you wander from the conversation. When you catch yourself thinking of things away from what she’s saying, bring your attention back to her. Look at how she’s sitting or standing. Does she have her arms crossed? Is she relaxed? Respond and ask questions that matter. Let her know you’re listening by asking her questions that make sense. This will show her you really do care about what she’s saying.
“What else happened today?” “Why does that make you feel that way?” “What else did they say?”
Give her a shoulder to cry on when things get rough. Encourage her to follow her dreams no matter how far away they may be. Show her you believe in her by never putting her down.
“Yes, I believe in you. ” “Yes, you can do this!”
