Keep doing what you’re doing, and don’t allow others to stop you. Focus on people that support you. Remind yourself that they’re jealous because you are doing something well.
“I want to have a positive working relationship; what can I do to help promote that environment?” “While I appreciate your constructive criticisms, I feel that you sometimes come across a little harsh. "
Hang out with people who support you, so the hater is less likely to confront you when you’re with a group. When you see the jealous person, be the first to speak with a polite greeting then move on. Become friends with their friends to make them feel like the outsider.
Give yourself 1 minute when you talk to them, then walk away saying “I need to go check something. " Keep track of negative comments, and after 3, end the conversation.
“I feel uncomfortable with the way you speak to me. " “Your approach when we talk makes me feel bad. Can we change our interactions to be more positive?”
Compliment the person on their positive traits. Be kind in all your interactions with the person. Offer to help the person improve their skills in the area they are jealous of you.
Share times that you have failed at something. Discuss tasks that are difficult for you. Ask the jealous person to help you with something to help their confidence.
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”I’ve noticed you acting different around me. Have I done something that bothered you?” ”I want to make sure I haven’t upset you, is everything ok?” ”You’re an awesome person, and I wanted to know if there was something that is coming between us. ”
