Don’t look down at the floor, your shoes, or your phone.

Tapping your feet might show that you are impatient or bored, too. She might not realize you want to kiss her if you don’t appear interested in the conversation. [4] X Research source

Ask her about her favorite places to travel, what she is currently reading, and if she has any hobbies. If you share similar interests, let her know that the two of you have something in common to help the conversation flourish.

If she is leaning away from you, she may not be interesting in kissing you at this time. If the two of you are sitting across from each other at a table, notice if she leans over the table toward you while you are talking. She might place her elbows on the table and scoot to the edge of her seat to be closer to you.

While standing, she may keep her arms at her side or she may make gestures while telling a story. Notice if she reaches her arms toward you while she is talking. This could mean that she likes you and is having fun with you.

If you use hand movements while telling a story, for example, notice if she begins to use them, too. If you tilt your head to the side while talking, she may adopt this movement too to show you that she is comfortable around you.

If she avoids making eye contact, she may be signaling that she is not ready for you to kiss her. [14] X Research source Watch her eye movements, too. If she looks into your eyes, down to your lips, and back up to your eyes, this might mean that she wants to kiss you. [15] X Research source

If the two of you are sitting, notice if she keeps her purse in her lap. This might mean that she is not interested in kissing you. While the two of you are standing, she might let her purse hang from her shoulder if she is comfortable around you.

When she is chatting with you or telling a story, she might reach out and touch your upper arm to show that she likes you.

Share how you feel before you ask her. You could say, “I know we just met, but I really like you. Would it be all right if I kissed you?”

Be sure to breathe through your nose while kissing.

Use this time to ask her if she would like to go on another date. Tell her that you would like to spend more time with her. [23] X Research source