Try saying, “All my CDs are upstairs, want to give them a listen?” You could also say, “There are some hilarious pictures in my yearbook upstairs. Want to take a look?” Suggest you go to your room by saying, “My sister always bothers me down here. Want to go upstairs where it’s a little quieter?” Always follow your parents’ rules about having people in your room and closing doors.
Say something like, “Did you see that YouTube video about the fox?” and then pull up the video on your computer. You could also show her a book you like and say, “Have you ever read this book? It’s one of my favorites. ”
If she’s playing with her hair or putting her hair behind her ear, she may be trying to get you to look at her face. Fidgeting with her clothes might mean she’s nervous.
It is possible that she may not like you (in that way). This can be difficult to accept but don’t take it personally. Sometimes girls just need a little more time. Who knows? She might actually want to kiss you later on.
Don’t stick out your lips, but gently press them against hers. Don’t try tongue on the first kiss. Tongue is not good on the first kiss, unless she slips you a little tongue. If she does, ‘go easy. Don’t force it down her throat. Keep your eyes closed while kissing. Otherwise, it’s kind of creepy if you’re just staring at her while you kiss. Keep it short. The first time you kiss, keep it under ten seconds. If you both end up liking the kiss, you can always continue kissing for longer.
When you open your mouth to kiss her, slip a little tongue into her mouth and bring it back out. The goal is to touch her tongue, and touch it gently. Don’t ram it in there. Take turns meeting her tongue with open-mouth kisses. While French kissing, it’s okay to keep your mouth slightly open. Remember to breathe while kissing. It’s easy to forget to breathe while kissing. Breathe through your nose quietly and slowly.
