If you had dinner or ate before the kiss, you should avoid ordering any foods that are heavy in garlic, onions, or any intense spices.
Kiss in the evening. Kissing as the sun is setting or after it has fallen is more romantic than kissing during the day. You’ll also feel less shy about your first kiss if you’re kissing in the dark. Kiss somewhere private. Pick a private location that is free of distractions or onlookers so you can really focus on your kiss. Pick a secluded park bench, a nice spot near a beach or a lake, or even your own balcony. Look is nice. Dress up a little bit to signify that you’re about to have a special moment. You don’t want to have your first kiss in your gym clothes.
If your partner keeps gazing into your eyes, touching you lightly, and smiling, then you’ll know that they’re ready for the kiss.
French kissing. Don’t immediately shove your tongue in your partner’s mouth and leave saliva everywhere. If your partner is bold and is gently touching her tongue with yours, then you can move in for a French kiss, but don’t try this in the first few seconds of your traditional kiss. Biting. Nibbling on your partner’s lip or even tongue can be a kinky way to spice up your kisses. But if you do this during your first kiss, your partner will be caught off guard and may even jump back. The roaming hands. You should make physical contact with your partner, move your bodies closer, and caress your partner’s head or shoulders with your hands. You should not grope your partner in any inappropriate places during your first kiss. This is doing way too much at once and will come off as sleazy and will make your first kiss feel insincere.
Your first kiss will feel more natural if you’re already touching the person and comfortable with it. Your hands shouldn’t rove to any inappropriate places – keep it PG. Your physical contact could even start from some light and gentle teasing. You can playfully hit or lightly push the other person until your actions become more serious. Try making a romantic compliment before you go in for the kiss. Just say, “Your eyes drive me crazy” or “You look so beautiful tonight. "
Move closer until your hips are nearly touching, and use your hands to graze the person’s cheeks, hair, or shoulders. One traditional kissing position is when the guy wraps his arms around a girl’s waist while she wraps her arms over her shoulders and behind his neck – you can think of this as the “slow dance” position.
Take your time to pull away from physical contact. If you’re too abrupt, your partner may think you’re not into it.
If it feels right, you can slowly move in for the French kiss. Just make sure your partner is also gently using his tongue so you don’t catch him off guard.
Even if it doesn’t go well, you should still gently pull away from the person and move on. Don’t dwell on what happened, and visualize success for your next kiss.