He turns his hips toward you even if he’s facing the other direction. He will look up at you, smile, and look back down. If he catches you looking at him, he’ll smile. He never puts his hands in his pockets or crosses his arms while talking to you. He may lean toward you when he speaks. He may turn his feet toward you. If he turns them away from you when you’re sitting down next to each other, then he may not be interested. He may accidentally brush up against you when you’re talking, or touch you lightly with his hands.
See if he offers you a ride home though he lives on the other side of town. See if he waits around, seemingly for no reason, until you show up.
If he treats you just like a pal, cursing, belching, and telling you about the people he has crushes on, then you may have entered the “Friend Zone. "
The same goes for your family members. If he sees you around your parent(s) or siblings and tries extra hard to be nice, he may be doing it because he likes you.
There is one exception to this rule, however: he may not want you to meet his friends because he’s too embarrassed of them!
He may even text you asking if he can help you with something small just as an excuse to talk to you. If he tries to spend as much time around you as possible, even if it’s through helping you out, then he’s definitely into you.
It may not happen immediately, but if you find that you two always end up having long conversations at the end of the night or sitting down next to each other when the whole gang goes out to happy hour, then this may be a sign that he’s really into you.
This can be confusing, but it makes a lot of sense. The main thing is to figure out if he treats you differently from the other people.
If you’re online, see if he tries to chat you on gchat or Facebook to catch up. This can be another sign that he wants something more from your relationship.
Do you go on coffee or lunch dates? If he meets up with you during the day, not after he’s had a few drinks with his buddies, then he may see you as relationship material. Do you hang out solo a lot? Do you go to the movies? Go for walks? Just watch TV together? Then guess what – you may already be going on dates without knowing it. Does he plan hanging out with you days in advance? If so, then he’s really serious about making sure he spends time with you.
Casually start showing off a talent, like dribbling a basketball or a soccer ball. Conveniently pick up a guitar and start strumming. Jump off tall structures into water to show you how brave he is. Challenge his friends to friendly fights or contests.
The next time you’re together, pay attention to how much he laughs. Try to notice him with others – does he always laugh so much, or does his laughter seem to be more intense around you?
The next time you’re around him, pay attention. Does he fidget? Does it take him a while to ask a question? Does he make self-deprecating comments? If so, then it may be because he likes you and doesn’t quite know how to act.
If he catches you catching him staring and blushes and looks down at the floor, then this is an extra sign that he’s into you.
Running his hands through his hair Trying to straighten his clothes or remove any stains on them Discreetly checking himself out in reflections
Also watch for him saying your name more often than he absolutely needs to. See if he talks slowly and more softly when he addresses you. This means that he’s letting his guard down because he likes you. See if he makes eye contact when he talks to you. Though he may look away occasionally, eye contact shows that he’s paying attention to you. See if he asks you a lot of questions about yourself and your personal life. This means that he is interested to get to know you better.
You can also try to see how he reacts when you enter the room. Does his entire face light up, or does he barely change his expression?
If he knows you’re going on dates and often says things like, “They aren’t good enough for you,” then he may just be saying that he thinks that he is good enough. He may also tease you about liking other people you’re just friends with. This could be another way for him to show that he’s thinking of you romantically.
Teasing is a big part of flirting. You may not even realize that he thinks he’s flirting with you when he’s being playful.
If he constantly says things like, “I can just never find the right one…” then this may be his way of telling you that this person is standing right in front of him.
His childhood His hopes for the future His relationships with his family or friends Some of his secretly dorky hobbies Anything that comes after, “I’ve never told anyone this before…”
