Likewise, don’t be pressured to participate in any sexual activity if you’re not comfortable doing so. If someone keeps pressuring you to have sex, don’t give in. Instead, tell someone else or walk away. What is consent: An enthusiastic “yes” or “sure”. What is not consent: Silence, a shrug, a “no,” or “maybe,” “I guess,” or anything that isn’t enthusiastic. If you aren’t sure it’s consent, it probably isn’t.
In addition to taking your time, which is the best way to make great love, you need to make sure that you are energetic and well groomed.
You could also ask ways they would feel more comfortable during sex (i. e, if they don’t want you to see their chest during sex, they might choose to wear a t-shirt). Everyone is different, everyone’s body is different, and everyone has different preferences.
