Once your tongues are in each other’s mouths, you can move them slowly in a circular motion, move them on top of each other, or do whatever feels good without moving too fast or getting sloppy. Remember that if you’re making out for the first time, you have to be extra cautious before you begin. The first time is about figuring out the person’s comfort level, boundaries, and favourite maneuvers. If your partner doesn’t seem to be comfortable with your actions, ask for their consent before trying to go further. [4] X Expert Source Cher GopmanRelationship Coach Expert Interview. 17 May 2019. If you’re on a first date, keep in mind there’s no right or wrong about whether you should kiss. It’s up to how comfortable the two of you feel with each other. [5] X Research source [v160969_b01]. 11 April 2019.
This is also a great move if you need a little break from so much kissing.
It’s okay. Taking a break from time to time will make you a better kisser.
Obviously, you shouldn’t switch the subject from anything romantic completely. Now’s not the time to ask about the math homework. Show your partner that you are really engaged, and give them your undivided attention. [8] X Expert Source Cher GopmanRelationship Coach Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.
If you’re fumbling awkwardly, really, it’s better to make a joke about it than to pretend you’re Mr. or Ms. Smooth.
Try giving your kissing partner a slightly wet kiss on the neck and then blow on it so they feel a shiver.
Keep in mind, however, that some hairstyles are not conducive to this. If they have their hair tied up or it’s quite curly, your fingers might get trapped. Instead, run the tips of your fingers slowly along the top and around their ear, as if you’re tucking a stray strand behind their ear.
Be forewarned: the gentle – or not so gentle – bite is not for all tastes, but if your special someone likes it, they will really like it. If you’re nervous about this move, practice on your hand first.
As you’re talking, you can breathe on your partner’s neck to make them shiver.
You don’t have to try 10,000 new moves in the middle of a make-out session. But trying at least two or three different things can help spice things up.
Don’t apologize about it. Everyone needs a break from time to time.
Don’t be shy. You don’t have to blurt out “I love you!” but hey, if you had a hot time, let it be known.
Though it may be hard to stay in the mood forever, try to keep things sexy for as long as you can after the make-out session. That will make your kissing partner even more eager to see you again.
