Brush your teeth and floss before you meet up with a girl you’d like to kiss. You don’t necessarily have to dress up, depending on the situation. Do make sure your clothes are clean and wrinkle-free.
As a bonus, popping a mint during a conversation can give the girl a hint that you’re interested in kissing her!
Keep the conversation light. Try saying something like “Tell me more about where you’re from. ” If she mentions a pet, ask her if she has any pictures on her phone. People love talking about their animals!
Hold the eye contact for a few seconds and then look away. If you stare at her for too long, you might start to look creepy.
Try to think of something that other people wouldn’t notice. For instance, if she has striking blue eyes, she’s probably been complimented on them her whole life. You’ll score extra points if you tell her the freckles across her nose are adorable instead. Avoid compliments about her figure, which might make her feel self-conscious and uncomfortable.
Try touching her on the face and saying, “I can’t stop thinking about kissing you. ” If she says yes, go for it! If she says no, show her that you’re mature and respectful by backing off.
If you like, you can touch her cheek or her hair as you kiss.
If she seems hesitant or uncomfortable, stop kissing her and ask her if everything is okay. She may have something on her mind that she wants to talk about, or she may not want to continue kissing. Be respectful of whatever she has to say.
Don’t kiss her neck too hard or you might leave a hickey!
Explore her body as it feels natural, but take your time. If you go too far too fast, she might become uncomfortable. Don’t touch her in any intimate places, unless you have her permission. She may indicate that she wants you to do so by placing your hands there, telling you, or touching you in your intimate areas. If you’re not sure, ask.
Is she pulling away a little and holding back as she kisses you? She might feel like it’s time to wrap up the makeout session. If she’s pressing her body into yours and using her hands on you, she probably wants to keep making out.
